Yes, I know. Being single can get pretty frustrating, especially when it seems like everyone around you is “Booed” up with someone.
Here are 3 reasons why your single season is the most important season of your life.
You Determine Who You’re Going to Serve
Whether you are spiritual or not, everyone has a god. Your God may be Jesus Christ, or your god may be you. At the end of the day, your single season gives you time to determine who have you given the power to for the direction of your life.
Before you marry someone, you need to make this distinction now. Because in marriage, you will want to serve the same God.
You Learn Interdependence
The balance of being independent yet still value dependence is what we call interdependence. It is best to learn this while you are single because it could easily become a problem within marriage. Yes, you should learn how to take care of yourself, but not to the degree that you give off the impression that you don’t need anyone.
You Can Become a Student of Your Purpose
I believe one of the greatest assets you can be to your future spouse is a person with purpose. The Bible states in Genesis 2 that Adam was in need of a helpmate. This doesn’t just apply to women, but men also.
In marriage, you are a helpmate to your spouse to help them become everything God created them to be for the fulfillment of their God given purpose. We all are solutions to problems in this World.