Dating has evolved. The way we find and meet new partners have changed but the dynamic of relationships is also very different in 2021. In this guide, we’ll take a closer look at what makes a relationship successful today.
Communication
Communication plays an integral role in every relationship. If you have a partner, it’s essential to be able to talk to them openly and make sure that you listen to each other. You don’t have to engage in deep and meaningful conversations all the time but it’s vital to be able to approach difficult conversations if they are required. It’s also important to build a relationship that is underpinned by honesty and transparency. Talk about how you feel and be truthful. You should be able to talk about everything from fantasies like looking at foot fetish pics together or trying role-play to dealing with money worries or discussing new job opportunities. You should never feel that you have to censor what you say or keep things that are troubling or upsetting you to yourself. If you can’t communicate openly with each other, this may be a red flag.
Equality
Equality is a subject of heated debate when it comes to talking about modern-day relationships. Everyone wants to feel valued and respected, and we’ve come a long way in terms of building relationships where both parties have an active role and a voice. Look for a partner who encourages and supports you and allows you to follow dreams and share your opinions and ideas. You may need to make compromises, but you shouldn’t have to give up on everything you want or feel like you have to make sacrifices all the time if you’re in a healthy relationship.
Adventure
Many of us have hectic schedules, we work long hours and our lives are dominated by work or other commitments. This means that it’s critical to make use of the time we do have with our partners. Today, we have access to all kinds of activities and destinations, we can be much more adventurous than our predecessors and there are opportunities to try new things. There may be days when all you want to do is curl up on the couch and watch TV together, but it’s also fantastic to be able to make memories and enjoy experiences. Travel the world, test your mettle, take up new hobbies or discover new places.
Being yourself
We live in a world where it’s very easy to put on a show or a mask. Social media provides a snapshot of real life, which is often rose-tinted. When you go on dates or you start seeing potential partners, look for people who enable you to be yourself, rather than a filtered or edited version. It’s so important to find genuine, authentic connections. Use your intuition, don’t compare yourself to other people, and be honest and open about who you are and what you’re looking for.
Relationships have changed and evolved over the years. In 2021, it’s beneficial to look for a partner you can communicate, try new things, have fun and be yourself with.
