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5 Ways to Be More Confident About Your Future

Written by: Elizabeth Howard

It’s natural to have negative thoughts in your daily life, but, if you don’t take steps to counteract those thoughts, they can adversely affect your life. Before long, you’ll doubt that you have the ability to positively affect your future. Fortunately, the solution to this negativity in your life is also up to you. Here are a few ways you can restore your confidence, and envision a brighter future for yourself.

Start With a Positive Thought

Most people lack confidence in themselves as the result of a lifetime spent thinking negatively. This type of thought process can be easily corrected through a conscious altering of your inner voice. When you hear that voice telling you that you’re going to have a bad day, that you don’t look attractive, or that you’ll make a fool of yourself in that day’s meeting, immediately stop that line of thinking. Instead, replace that negative voice with something more positive thoughts that bolster your confidence. Tell yourself that this is going to be the best day you’ve had so far, or tell yourself that you love the way you look in the mirror. Starting the day on a more positive note will influence how the rest of the day unfolds.

Ditch Your Old Wardrobe

How many pieces of clothing do you have that don’t fit well on your body? Maybe you tell yourself that you’re going to fit into them again. The problem is that there will come a time when you feel pressured to wear those outfits only to feel awkward and self-conscious throughout that whole day. You should throw away any clothing that doesn’t fit you well, and replace them with outfits that you do like. When your wardrobe is filled with outfits that compliment your body type, you’ll feel better about yourself day by day. As a result, you’ll feel greater confidence, and you’ll trust in your ability to achieve your future goals.

Identify Your Strengths and Weaknesses

There are many ways for you to explore your strengths and weaknesses, and this is the first step in helping you improve yourself. Some people find it helpful to make lists of their strengths and weaknesses, while others prefer a more visual representation of their attributes. For example, learning tarot card meanings and spreads can help you explore the aspects of your character that are in need of improvement. You can also use tarot card spreads to help you recognize behavior patterns that led to adverse outcomes in the past. In this way, you can modify how you use your strengths to ensure your weaknesses won’t interfere with your future. There are many other ways you can explore your strengths and weaknesses, including meditation and therapy. Pick something that’s right for you.

Don’t Play the “What If” Game

When you envision achieving a goal, you may start to envision all of the problems that could disrupt your path to success. As you start entertaining “what if” scenarios, you’ll start down a new path of negative thinking that could adversely affect the interactions you have in your daily life. Your expectation of negative outcomes will defeat any potential success you could achieve. Instead, envision success for yourself. Believing that you can succeed will give you the confidence to take risks that will increase your chances for success.

Trust in Your Talents and Skills

Each of us has talents and skills that we have honed throughout our lives. However, when faced with a new situation, apprehension that the unknown creates can cause you to doubt yourself and your abilities. That doubt can be just enough to intimidate you and cause you to fail. Instead of letting fear get the better of you, focus on the skills you possess. Use those talents and skills to help you overcome the challenges you’re facing. Even a small success will help you feel more confident in your ability to succeed, and, before long, you’ll find that you have a stronger sense of self-confidence.


It will take a conscious effort to put these suggestions into practice on a daily basis, but you will see positive results in time. Best of all, these practices will become good habits in your life with consistent practice. You’ll enjoy more positivity in your life, and that will help you feel more confident in achieving any goal you wish to pursue.

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