The Culture Supplier – Marcus Gilmore
According to a new survey, everyone is terribly confused about whether they’re on dates or just hanging out. But ladies when he steps up to the plate for a date , remember just like you are watching him , he is watching you.
Check out 7 THINGS TO AVOID DOING ON THE FIRST DATE :
LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION!
Absolutely no first dates in the living room — yours or his. This sends the wrong message to a man
WHAT TIME IS IT?
Grandma said it best: “Ain’t nothing open after midnight but legs.” The later the hour the more relaxed you become. This makes it especially hard to pay attention to detail, which is imperative on a first date. Plus, dates scheduled earlier in the day allow for more flexibility.
BE SEXY BUT LET HIS MIND WONDER
Men are visual. The first thing we see often determines the first thing we think, so remember to dress appropriately on a first date. Yes, be sexy, but don’t let it all hang out. Leave something for the imagination; guessing is a good thing.
NO JOB INTERVIEWS
“Where do you work?” “How much do you make?” “What are your future plans?” No one likes to be interrogated on a first date. Believe it our not men rather let those questions come up casually. How about talking about current events ? This will at least tell you what some of his interest may be.
DITCH THE ATTITUDE
Men are already nervous majority of the day on first dates too. Smile and be approachable. He is busy trying to make a good first impression with you, so throw him a bone.
CHECK YOUR INSECURITIES AT THE DOOR.
For men, insecurity can be either a turn on or a turn off. Either way, you lose. It is important to be sure of yourself. Confidence is contagious but the absence of it cannot be hidden. Be confident in who you are. A real man will find that sexy!
GO HOME ALONE
It’s true, we are all adults, and we have the right to do what we please with our bodies. That said, when you’re looking to establish a healthy relationship, sex on the first date is a very bad idea.